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Building confidence in cats

by | Mar 31, 2025 | Latest Monthly Newsletters, Pet Care

If your cat is a bit shy or anxious, try implementing these purr-fectly feline-friendly tips to help gradually build their confidence.

Play

Did you know that gentle play with your cat is a great way to strengthen your bond with them and bring them out of their shell?

Shy cats can find direct forms of petting or play a little too much. For these cats, it’s great to try more hands-off styles of interaction, such as:

  • Using fishing-rod or wand style toys
  • Providing them with cardboard boxes with small holes cut out, so that they can spy on you and poke out a paw to grab dangling toys
  • Gently rolling ping-pong balls, scrunched paper balls, or treats near them
  • Getting them to chase a laser pointer, provided you give them something to physically “catch” at the end to indicate the game is over (e.g. a small light toy or treat)
Hiding spots

Providing nervous kitties with safe hiding spots to retreat to when required can help them to gain confidence and adapt better to their environment.

Dedicated feline quiet time zones could involve:

  • Cat igloos placed on high furniture or beds
  • Cupboard doors left slightly ajar, with some comfy bedding inside
  • Quiet rooms zoned off from dogs or small children with a baby gate
Supportive supplements and medications

Depending on your cat’s level of nervousness or anxiety, they may benefit from an appropriate calming supplement or medication.

Ask our vets about trialling soothing feline pheromone sprays, safe L-tryptophan or casein supplements, or a prescription anti-anxiety medication. Some medications can be prescribed for “as required” usage (such as prior to vet visits or car trips), whereas particularly anxious cats will benefit from long-term daily medication.

For more tips on bringing your shy feline companion out of their shell, consult our knowledgeable team.